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If someone is being shitty and you want to criticize them

You can criticize them *just for their shitty behaviour* and stop there

You don't also have to bring their physical appearance, health, disability, neurodiversity, sexuality, gender, race, or other completely benign preferences into it because you feel like being cruel to them

The person you're trying to criticize won't feel the sting of your comment, but your friends who share those traits that you're being cruel about will

@bgcarlisle Thank you soo much for this.
Additionally, one should not use generalized terms like "always" or "never", rethoric questions (How often do I have..) or hyperboles (I've told you a hundred times not to...)
It doesn't work!

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