If you're new here
A lot of people won't accept a follow request, or might (soft-)block you if your profile doesn't have an avatar/header/bio/any posts at all
This isn't personal
It's just a learned response that is protective against spammy follow-bots
If you give us something to go on, you may find that people get much friendlier! :)
@bgcarlisle my follows are closed just so i can give a user a once over to make sure they aren’t going to come and be rude to me, most people who req a follow will get through (though it depends how im feeling when i look at it, unfortinatley)