*MOVED* See pinned toot.

Grief is selfish.

This is not inherently a bad thing, but it's true.

The person who left is gone.

In my case, forever.

It is right and just to honor their memory, but that memory is a part of YOU, not THEM. It's what YOU remember. They're not here to do it for you.

Grief is your body crying out for a connection that is no longer there. It is about what YOU miss.

Grief is selfish, but sometimes you need to be just a bit selfish in order to heal.

Or so I'm told.

I'm still working on that.

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Scholar Social

A Mastodon instance for academics

Scholar Social is meant for: researchers, grad students, librarians, archivists, undergrads, academically inclined high schoolers, educators of all levels, journal editors, research assistants, professors, administrators—anyone involved in academia who is willing to engage with others respectfully.

We strive to be a safe space for queer people and other minorities, recognizing that there can only be academic freedom where the existence and validity of interlocutors' identities is taken as axiomatic.

"A Mastodon profile you can be proud to put on the last slide of a presentation at a conference"

"Official" monthly journal club!

(Participation is, of course, optional)

Scholar Social features a monthly "official" journal club, in which we try to read and comment on a paper of interest.

Any user of Scholar Social can suggest an article by sending the DOI by direct message to @socrates@scholar.social and one will be chosen by random lottery on the last day of the month. We ask that you only submit articles that are from *outside* your own field of study to try to ensure that the papers we read are accessible and interesting to non-experts.

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