Encourage the men around you to nurture and care for others. That that is a thing that everyone must do for their communities.
This means learning to think about what someone's growth is without controlling who they become. This means, again, taking the power one has been entrusted with and using it for the growth of others.
Nurturing is absolutely not a 'feminine' trait. It is universal. Being cut off from this fundamental kind of relating to others is a deep injustice done to men.